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Portrait of a Young Man as The Artist
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phoenix_snake From: phoenix_snake Date: September 30th, 2004 01:27 pm (UTC) (Link)

Rock out Will!!

As well you shouldn't feel guilty for living your life. I totally see this chick as being not only a bitch but also as a loser.

I'm not being mean, (well, yes I am) let me explain. If someone has a job he/she/it is getting a significant amount of cash to do, and wants to do it well, they set goals for themselves. They meet the goals and feel good. If someone else does not have to work as many hours to fulfill the same goals, the person feels less good about themselves.

Therefore to alleviate those feelings of inadequacy the individual will tell themselves that the other party must OBVIOUSLY not work as hard. And then they can go back to feeling better about themselves. And indeed, they can then feel better than you, always a self-esteem booster!

And none of this is conscious. But it is very true and real. And you should NOT feel bad about it. In fact you should feel good that you don't punch her in the face, because she obviously doesn't do enough self-reflection.

Hugs!!
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