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The Sound of One Hand
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hawksley From: hawksley Date: February 8th, 2010 12:40 am (UTC) (Link)
if you look at photos of me from when i was younger, to today, in every single one i am subconsciously hiding my nonhand.



i went to a bar last night, and one of the people in the group who i had met once before was absolutely 100% turned off of me completely because i had this 'defect'. he made a few horrible comments that i one-upped him on, but... god, it hurt.

-s
hawksley From: hawksley Date: February 8th, 2010 12:41 am (UTC) (Link)
what i'm trying to say is, thanks for posting this today. it's been weighing on my mind pretty heavily the last 24 hours.

<3

-s
abmann From: abmann Date: February 8th, 2010 01:18 am (UTC) (Link)
Wow, really? He was making snyde comments?
hawksley From: hawksley Date: February 8th, 2010 01:20 am (UTC) (Link)
yeah it was really awful. the dude is kind of a dick but like. the main comment was along the lines of


'now i'm curious. if you meet a guy with a dick that's just too big for one hand, what would you do?'

i spent most of my time avoiding him.
abmann From: abmann Date: February 8th, 2010 01:24 am (UTC) (Link)
DUDE. That's nuts. In happy to say that has never happened to me. Was he with you and your friends?
hawksley From: hawksley Date: February 8th, 2010 01:26 am (UTC) (Link)
yup. one of my good friend's good friends. he's kind of a prick. he's supposed to be coming to a party i'm having this week. we'll see how that goes before i write him off completely.


i get a lot of requests to let people touch my nonhand once the person has hung out with me a little. what's up with that. seriously, two last week alone.


i should stop whining, lol.
abmann From: abmann Date: February 8th, 2010 01:40 am (UTC) (Link)
That I never get but Fox does like to chew on it.

I don't think I'd put up with that or friends who put up with that. I wonder if it happens to you because of where you live or your gender. Madison is somewhat more liberal. :)
alibee From: alibee Date: February 8th, 2010 06:01 pm (UTC) (Link)
If you're having (as in hosting) the party, fuck this guy. There is no need for you to put up with such an asshole EVER, not least of all when you're HAVING A PARTY.
hawksley From: hawksley Date: February 9th, 2010 12:25 am (UTC) (Link)
well he's a really good friend of my friend's so i'm kind of willing to hope that he just made a bad move. i guess i'll find out later this week.

-s
alibee From: alibee Date: February 9th, 2010 12:37 am (UTC) (Link)
A bad move? Saying something like that once is a bad move. Repeating said move throughout the night is douchebaggy.

:(
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